r-assignment [3]
We are an insulated society. We
isolate ourselves. We walk on the streets and plug in our headphones and let
the music become a soundtrack for our invincible minds. We look down at our
phones, pretending to have suddenly gotten a text message or notification so
that we don’t have to look someone in the eyes and tell them, “No, I don’t have
spare change,” as we walk by with our new shirts or Starbucks cups or updated
iPhones.
How uncomfortable.
As I watched people walk down the
Drag, it seemed as though there were small pockets of space around the homeless
who stood on the streets or sat against the sides of buildings. It was subtle,
with the typical traveler leaving enough polite distance between them and the
homeless. It was an interesting juxtaposition of two worlds, two kinds of
cultures, when the homeless were gathered in a group as groups of frat boys
walked past them. Some people seemed flippant when a homeless person asked them
for change, brushing them off with a frown on their face. Others just pretended
that they hadn’t heard anything, ducking their heads down and leaving a wide
circumference of space around them and the other person. Many people appeared
to be uncomfortable to speak to a homeless person, as though interaction with
that homeless person would be factored into their social status.
Watching other people interact
with homeless people struck a nerve. I always hope that a homeless person won’t
ask me for change or talk to me as I walk down Guadalupe. I feel guilty that I
sometimes buy into the stereotype of them being lazy, addicted bums who just
didn’t work hard enough to move up the social ladder of society. It reminded me
of how fast this world moves, with people always having somewhere to go and
money to earn and things to buy. Conversely, I wonder what it’s like for
homeless people to watch people walk by. I wonder if they notice things that
people ordinarily wouldn’t see or care about, like the beautiful simplicity of
a couple holding hands, or that one person who begins to cross the street with
only 3 seconds to spare. I wonder if they think about that.
One thing I did learn, however,
in this practical exercise: All people may be created equal, but they certainly
don’t always end up that way in the real world.
Written on Sunday, September 29, 2013 at 12:49 PM
by twentyxfragments